Showing posts with label Behavior. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Behavior. Show all posts

Saturday, June 14, 2025

Friday 5

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Intense intents in tents

1. When have you recently been the ringmaster?
I feel like I'm often juggling at least 10 plates and 3 rings at work. The life of a middle manager....
2. When have you recently walked a highwire?
I'm currently kind of stranded in the middle of walking across a deep metaphorical (emotional) chasm on a very narrow path, trying not to freak out and remind myself that if I got to the middle I can get to the other side.
3. When have you recently been an acrobat?
I spent almost half my work hours this week in the children's department, which I don't hate at all, but I canNOT do my actual work in there during Summer Reading. So, I didn't get a lot of forward progress done in getting new books out to the shelves. It's past time to get the new children's librarian on board and we still have another week to go! 
4. When have you recently been a lion tamer?
I am a terrible lion tamer. If this were my job, the lions would bite off my head in 3 seconds and the act would be over. This is why I'm relegated to children rather than dealing with adults, i.e. potential lions.
5. When have you recently been the strongman or strongwoman?
Isn't this where I say this is my full-time life, and has been for the past 8-ish years? I'm tired. Can someone else please be in charge of everything for me for a few weeks?


All of this is to say that, unfortunately, this IS my circus and these ARE my monkeys. 

Monday, May 19, 2025

Saturday 9

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Nothing's Gonna Stop Us Now (1987)
Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) In this song, Gracie Slick challenges, "Let them say we're crazy!" Tell us about something you're glad you did, even though your friends or family may have advised you against it.
Oh, jeez, almost everything I've done that's fun someone has warned me against doing. Or at least looked askance at me. Good thing I tend to be risk-averse unless challenged! I'm glad I went overseas my junior year of college to (what was then) the U.S.S.R. and China, and Mongolia. The reward was going to Italy at the end, which got me through some awful moments in assorted Soviet airports. No one thought this was a good idea, including me, but I was dared so my big mouth got me behind the Iron Curtain. And my risk-aversion got me back out. 😀 
2) Slick is the lead singer of Jefferson Starship. This band got its start in 1965 as Jefferson Airplane but updated their name in 1974. Part of their reasoning was that by the 1970s, airplane travel was commonplace. In 2023, an estimated 820 million Americans flew domestically. When was your most recent flight? When is your next one?
Sparky and I flew to Phoenix a year ago last February just to get the hell out of Gray Frozen Darkness for a weekend. It was the first time we'd been on a plane in 5+ years. The trip there was not comfortable at all, the flight home was better (and I got to see the Barbie movie!), but the whole traveling thing was nerve-wracking.
We're heading East this fall, but I think we'll drive, even though it'll be a long three-day drive. We have business to take care of in Maine.
3) Songwriter Albert Hammond said the song was inspired by his divorce. After years of legal wrangling, he was finally free to marry his long-time, long-suffering girlfriend. They're still married today. What is something you waited a long time for? Was it worth the wait?
Waiting for children (child in my case) to reach adulthood feels like a kabillion years, and then once they're legal adults it feels like no time at all. 
4) Albert Hammond is perhaps best known as the one-hit wonder who sang, "It Never Rains in Southern California." Is rain expected where you are today?
Nope, no rain today. We're in a pattern of wind and cold with some general gloom. I'm NOT wearing socks anymore though! It's spring (despite the 55-degree F high today) dammit! I'm also glad not to have to have AC going too, though. 
5) He co-wrote the song with Diane Warren. In January, she lost her home to the Los Angeles fires. When a friend is confronted by heartache or tragedy, what can you say or do for them? What shouldn't you say or do?
Let them tell you what they need, unless they seem stuck in "freak-out mode." NEVER say, "I know just how you feel" or anything of the sort. I promise, even if you went through the same scenario, you do NOT know how they are feeling. Silence and hugs, listening more than talking. All of which is really hard. For me.
6) "Nothing's Gonna Stop Us Now" was the love theme to the romantic fantasy Mannequin. In that movie, a department store mannequin comes to life and falls for a struggling artist. While it was a moderate success at the box office, the gritty Vietnam drama Platoon was a much bigger hit. When you sit down to watch a movie, what genre would you prefer (fantasy, romance, comedy, drama, etc.)?
I want a comedy with some action, not lowbrow stupidity. I don't see too many movies anymore because they irritate me, and I get fidgety and bored sitting still so long. Late-onset ADHD? Sparky curates my movie-viewing these days. Last up was the last Deadpool movie, which was pretty close to the perfect sweet spot. I guess some would say this is lowbrow stupidity, but at least it wasn't Adam Sandler. 
(Incidentally, I ever saw Mannequin--though I love the lead actor--but I did sit in a theater full of Vietnam Vets to see Platoon. Like full, need-an-usher-to-find-an-empty-seat full.)
7) In 1987, when this song was popular, Aretha Franklin became the first woman inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. Aretha was proud of her Detroit roots. Have you been to Michigan? If yes, where did you go?
I have been to Michigan a couple of times, to East Lansing once and to Windsor once. I have been told the Detroit airport is pretty dope but haven't ever needed to stop there.
But can we talk about taking until 1987 to honor a woman in rock and roll? When it was Rosetta Tharpe who "invented" it??? Men piss me off so much, so hard, so often.
Incidentally, it took me awhile to figure out why we were talking about Michigan instead of Ohio because the HoF is in Cleveland. 
8) In 1987, the Chevy Corvette made news by adding a low tire pressure light to its dashboard. When you're driving and a yellow warning light comes on, do you handle the issue promptly? Or is it something you'll get to when you get around to it?
lol  My check engine light has been on for at least 2 years now. The car is also 14 years old. If a different light came on, I'd handle it fairly quickly, but My Car Guy told me to just ignore the engine light so I'm following his directions. I need a new car, but there is literally not enough time to think about that right now.
9) Random question: A magic mirror reflects your appearance five years from today. Would you look at it?
I don't even look properly in the mirror much daily. I'm sure I'll be another half-centimeter shorter, far grayer, and just as blind. Honestly, if I had to pick me out of a crowd, I'm not sure I could do it.

Saturday, February 6, 2021

Saturday 9

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Waiting for Tonight (1999) 
Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here

 1) In this song, Jennifer Lopez anticipates a night of unbridled passion with the love of her life. What are you waiting for tonight? (No pressure; it doesn't have to be as thrilling as hers.) 
Whew, well, I can't compete with that: I'm having a couple of Moscow Mules and then taking a bath and getting in bed. It's buh-luddy cold here and I plan to spend as much time as possible under blankets tomorrow.
 2) She sings that she's glad she's beyond those nights that found her tossing and turning alone in her bed. Did you enjoy restful sleep last night? 
I did. I slept 9 hours, according to my CPAP. I love my CBD gummies at bedtime.
 3) Whatever Jennifer has planned for tonight, it won't include alcohol. She never drinks liquor. What's the last adult beverage you enjoyed? 
Ahem, currently sipping a (very strong) MM as mentioned in the first answer.
 4) Ms. Lopez performed "Waiting for Tonight" during last year's Super Bowl halftime show. Will you be watching The Big Game this weekend? 
I'll probably tune in, if only for the ads. Definitely cheering for KC.
 5) Speaking of this weekend, The Weeknd will headline the Super Bowl 2021 halftime show. Are you a fan of his? 
I know nothing much about him, and only know one song which I can't even name right now. 
 6) Super Bowl Sunday is the #1 day for guacamole consumption in the US. When did you most recently eat something with avocado in it? 
Last week. Ahem. See below.
 7) Chicken wings are a popular Super Bowl dish, too. When did you most recently eat chicken? How was it prepared? 
I had a chicken burrito bowl from Chipotle last week. They accidently gave me ALL the sides, rather than the cheese and lettuce I requested. This includes guac. Fortunately, I like guac.
 8) This year, fast food chain Chipotle will run their first-ever Super Bowl ad. Do you pay closer attention to commercials during the Super Bowl? 
I definitely pay more attention to the ads than the game. And I'm a football fan, so I don't know what that says about me.
 9) Random question: Are you more likely to pretend to be more naive than you really are, or more sophisticated?
I don't pretend much anymore. Sometimes, though, it's just easier to let people explain something I already know about than tell them they're getting things wrong. 😎

Sunday, September 29, 2019

Sunday Stealing

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Thought Provoking Questions
These are questions suggested by Markandangel

If you could instill one piece of advice in a newborn baby’s mind, what advice would you give?
Hell no! I'll be taking advice from this source, not polluting it with my stupidity!
What is the most desirable trait another person can possess?
Self-awareness.
What are you most grateful for?
Small moments of joy and painlessness.
Is stealing to feed a starving child wrong?
Nope.
What do you want most?
Peace.
Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?
I tend toward doing things right as often as possible; I need to pay more attention to doing the right things regardless of perfectibility.
What has life taught you recently?
Just cutting back on food intake or eating healthier food doesn't cause weight loss. So frustrating.
What is the one thing you would most like to change about the world?
I would really like people to spend more time listening with an open mind.
Where do you find inspiration?
Kids and animals, some weather (e.g. thunderstorms) and sleep.
Can you describe your life in a six word sentence?
"Just take it as it comes."
If we learn from our mistakes, why are we always so afraid to make a mistake?
Because pride. Ego, if you prefer.
What impact do you want to leave on the world?
Aside from kindness, I'd actually like to leave as little impact as possible. Call me nuts.
What is the most defining moment of your life thus far?
Life continues after tragedy, and there are ALWAYS things to be learned, often from surprising people and events.
In the haste of your daily life, what are you not seeing?
Realistically, if I'm not seeing it, I'm, uh, ... not seeing it.
To answer the implicit question, I'm often very unaware of how set in my ways I am.
If life is so short, why do we do so many things we don’t like and like so many things we don’t do?
"I don’t understand myself at all, for I really want to do what is right, but I can’t. I do what I don’t want to—what I hate. I know perfectly well that what I am doing is wrong, and my bad conscience proves that I agree with these laws I am breaking. But I can’t help myself because I’m no longer doing it.... When I want to do good, I don’t; and when I try not to do wrong, I do it anyway." (Romans 7:15-17a, 19 (NLB))

Paul had one answer for that. I tend to agree with him in the abstract sense: because it feels better to do the wrong thing often. Or it is or seems easier.
What lifts your spirits when life gets you down?
Music. Sleep. Venting to a trusted person.
Have you ever regretted something you did not say or do?
Only every motherlovin' day! Good God, this is my life. "Regrets, I have a few..."
Has your greatest fear ever come true?
Ayup. Usually with a twist because God's a funny guy.
Why do we think of others the most when they’re gone?
I don't really think I do; I am fairly certain I think about my Mom now as often as I did when she was still around. However, I think we all like to think about past times of our lives that seem much easier than today. I also strong distrust this rosy view of the past. My life wasn't appreciably "better" in my 20s, though some things were easier. Other things were pretty awful and I'd never want to do it again.
What is your most beloved childhood memory?
I've been thinking a lot lately about playing jacks (metal ones!) on the sidewalk in front on my house. We had a driveway pad that was very smooth so my hand didn't get all torn up scooping. I loved jacks....

Sunday, January 28, 2018

Sunday Stealing

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A Quiz for Grown-Ups

1. What bill do you hate paying the most?
Here are the ones that are currently on the chopping block: part of DirecTV (the premium channels), SiriusXM, some subscriptions on Beast's Nook, and I just need to renegotiate our cell plan.
2. What do you really want to be doing right now?
WANT: napping. NEED: gathering paperwork for taxes, financial purposes, and Medicaid application.
3. Why did you choose the shirt you have on now?
It was on the top of the pile in the closet.
4. Thoughts on gas prices?
This is something I just don't dwell on. I'm glad I'm buying less than I was for most of September-December.
5. First thought when the alarm goes off in the morning
".....nooooooooo..."
6. Last thought you have before you go to sleep?
I have no idea, I'm usually asleep by then.
7. Do you miss being a child?
I miss it pretty much daily at this point.
8. What errand/chore do you despise the most?
See #2 under NEED. Man, my relationship with money is pretty much totally fucked up.
9. Up early or sleep in?
I love sunrises, but seeing them means going to be before I leave work in parts of the year. Which isn't practical, right? So I'll sleep in when I can.
10. Favorite lunch meat?
Bologna. I'm low-rent.
11. What do you get every time at Trader Joe’s?
I've never been in a Trader Joe's. See answer just above.
12. Beach or lake?
Don't, uh, lakes have beaches? Because...well, yeah. I'd rather be in the mountains, all the same.
13. Ever crashed your vehicle?
Yup. I strongly recommend against it.
14. Strangest place you've brushed your teeth?
I seem to remember brushing in a lake or river as a kid once. Also, with fizzy bottled water in St. Petersburg, because the water there is beyond scary.
15. Somewhere you've never been but want to go?
Africa, specifically Botswana, Egypt, Kenya, Namibia.
16. At this point in your life would you want to start a new career?
Hell no! That doesn't mean I won't be, but I'm not in for anymore giant changes.
17. Do you own your own house?
Well, I pay on the mortgage every month, so not really.
18. Do you have a go-to person?
Not so much, not anymore.
19. Are you where you want to be in life?
Oh, you crack me up. ... Not.
20. Growing up, what were your favorite cartoons?
I didn't watch cartoons much, and when I did it was mostly the Warner Bros. or Hanna-Barbera shorts.
21. What has changed since you were a child?
Almost everything.
22. Looking back at high school, were they the best years of your life?
Absolutely not! Hell to the no, no way, uh-uh.
23. Are there times you still feel like a kid?
I feel ignorant fairly often, but rarely in a childlike way.
24. Did you have a pager?
I didn't. Beast did.
25. Were you the type of kid you want your kids to hang out with?
Hah. Yeah, actually, I was. So was Sparky.

Wednesday, December 27, 2017

Saturday 9

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Happy Holidays! (from the archives)

1. [...] Sam loved giving her annual wish list to Santa. Yet some children are reluctant to climb into Jolly Old St. Nick's lap. Did you enjoy the tradition or were you shy? Or did you by pass it altogether -- either because you wrote him a letter or because your family didn't celebrate Christmas?
I only remember visiting Santa one time. I'm sure I was shy and terrified about it, but it was the first year the Big Mall opened, so it was a Big Deal.
2. Are you currently on the Naughty or Nice list? How did you get there?
Everyone thinks I'm on the Nice list. I guess I am, but I'm sure making some questionable decisions on the daily. Oh well. Doing what I can, I guess.
3. Did you ship any gifts to friends and family this year? If so, which one traveled the farthest?
I send my usual packets of Christmas ornaments to the great-nieces and -nephews, including the two sets that go to England.
4. Did you buy yourself a gift this year?
I did. I bought myself a shirt (I think?) with all the other presents, and a new winter coat today.
5. What's your favorite holiday-themed movie? Have you seen it yet this year?
I'm not at all into this tradition. I haven't seen any Christmas shows this year (movies or TV shows), nor have I heard much music except at church. I'm ok with that--this year wasn't one I want to remember or have stand out (more than it's going to).
6. Thinking of movies, Christmas is lucrative for Hollywood. Have you ever gone to a movie theater on Christmas Day?
Yes. I was going to do so again this year, but Sparky and I went on Xmas Eve to see the latest Star Wars movie. Maybe I'll go see something this weekend too, maybe the Hugh Jackman movie. I'm dealing with the beginning of a cold today, so we'll see how I feel over the weekend about going out in Arctic temperatures.
7. Have you ever suffered an embarrassing moment at the company Christmas party?
I embarrass myself on a pretty regular basis at parties, mostly without having even a whiff of alcohol. And I haven't been to a proper Christmas party in years.
8. What's your favorite beverage in cold weather?
Hot black tea, preferably Earl Grey or English Breakfast.
9. Share a memory from last Christmas.
This is last year's swag. It's currently stacked pretty much in this same order on the dining room table, where it's been sitting for 12 months. Does that explain my life this year? Pretty much.

This year, most of my gifts were food from friends, one shirt and a Not-Yet-Published book from Sparky, and yeah, that's about it.

Saturday, November 18, 2017

Saturday 9 x 4

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Monster Mash (1962)
Unfamiliar with this week's featured song? Hear it here.

1) In your younger days, did you ever trick or treat while dressed as a monster or ghoul?
I don't think so. I don't remember most of my costumes, but I can't see my parents doing anything scarier with me than basic black-hatted witch.
2) Do you enjoy being frightened by celluloid boys-gone-bad, like Michael Myers (Halloween) or Jason (Friday the 13th)?
Not at all. Have not seen any of these movies, ever.
3) When you were a kid, did you ever TP a neighbor's house or indulge in any other Halloween acts of vandalism? (Don't worry, the statute of limitations is up.)
Absolutely not.
4) Will you be attending any Halloween parties this year? If so, will you dress up?
Oops, uh, no. I wasn't home at all on Halloween: worked 7 a.m to 6 p.m., met my sponsor for dinner, then went to a meeting, arrived back home around 9:30.
5) Can you see any Halloween decorations as you answer these 9 questions?
Nope. Then again, next week is Thanksgiving, so I wouldn't be likely to see much at this point, even if I could see outside.
6) While Halloween is most popular in the United States and Canada, and isn't really celebrated at all in Japan or South Korea. How would you explain our Halloween customs to a visitor from another land?
Kids run around in costume begging for candy. It's a bit weird.
7) "Monster Mash" is one of Halloween's most played songs. Are you happy to hear it every year? Or does it set your teeth on edge?
I actually never heard it this year.
8) This week's featured artist, Bobby "Boris" Pickett, started as a stand-up comedian who incorporated his imitations of Boris Karlof and Bela Lugosi into his act. Can you impersonate anyone?
I don't think so.
9) Dick Clark was an impossibly young looking 33 in this week's featured clip. Are you often told you look good for your age?
Well, last week someone asked if Beast is my son. He's literally 6 days younger than me. Yeah, that was a suuuper-good day.
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Suddenly I See (2005)Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) This song is a tribute to Patti Smith, the rocker who inspired KT Tunstall. What woman who has inspired you?
My mom and grandmothers. Gloria Steinem. Margaret Sanger. Sandra Day O'Connor. People from my church(es).
2) In this video, you can see a turntable and an LP. When is the last time you played a record?
Oh boy. Decades. I mean, our stereo is set up and ready to go, but it's too much hassle to get out the records themselves. Oh. Wait. I played a 78 on our Crosley to put it onto a CD for work last year.
3) Growing up, Ms. Tunstall seldom sang at home because her father is severely hearing impaired and music interfered with his sensitive hearing aid. Do you, or does anyone in your family, wear a hearing aid?
My dad did. No one here does now though. The day is probably coming.
4) In high school, she got experience performing on street corners. Have you ever tipped a street musician?
Ayup.
5) When this song was popular, Microsoft introduced the Xbox 360 to North America. Are you into gaming?
Not really. Sparky very happily presented something on our Skype call today, "See what I just got?!" It's a game. "It's the NEW Pokemon game; it just came out." Oh.
6) In 2005, Prince Charles married his long-time love, Camilla Parker Bowles. At the time of their wedding, 73% of Brits said they disapproved of her. Today, her popularity has increased somewhat and her disapproval has dropped to 55%. Do you know anyone who married someone you didn't like? Did their spouse grow on you with time?
Yes. And no.
7) Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire was popular in theaters. Who is your favorite "Harry Potter" character?
Hermione of course!! ...though I have a soft spot for Ron, too.
8) In 2005, YouTube was introduced by three young men who met while working at PayPal. What's the last thing you paid for using PayPal?
I have never used PayPal. That's rather shocking, I guess.
9) Random Question: After a long, exhausting day of travel, you check into a motel. The room is not at all to your liking. It's next to the ice machine, so you can hear cubes dropping noisily into metal buckets. Your view is of the parking lot. The bathtowels and thin and tiny. In short, you feel like you're being ripped off. Do you grab your bag, turn on your heel and check out, hoping there are better accommodations nearby? Or do you say, "What the hell, it's only one night," and climb into bed?
Depends on how tired I am and if the bathroom is clean. If I'm beat...I'll probably just crash and then leave a rude note online. If the bathroom is scummy though, I'm definitely out. Dirty bathroom, buggy bed, bye-bye.
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Get Down Tonight (1975)
Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) Tonight, KC has three things on his "to-do" list: do a little dance, make a little love and get down. Tell us three things you'd like to accomplish this weekend.
Update the checkbook and balance it. Take a bath. Make a list of all the calls and errands I need to do Monday.
2) This week's song is considered emblematic of disco, a genre that had as many detractors as fans. Is there a kind of music you simply cannot stand?
I don't like experimental weirdness that is clearly just pompous self-aggrandizement.
3) Before becoming a musician, KC, aka Harry Casey, worked in a record store. In those days, record stores were very popular. Peaches, Coconuts, Sam Goody and Tower Records are four store chains that once dotted the landscape but now are gone. Today, if you wanted to purchase a CD, where would you turn?
Amazon.
4) One of his duties at the record store was unloading the big corrugated shippers filled with LPs. What's the heaviest thing you've lifted lately?
I've been humping stuff in and out of various medical facilities pretty much daily--this last one, I'm bringing in clothes and schlepping them back home to wash every day. Thank God our water is free.
5) KC is proud that he's lived his entire life in Miami-Dade County. Do you expect to change your address in the next year or so?
It is eminently possible if Beast can't figure out stairs but is otherwise able to come home.
6) In 1975, the year this song was popular, former Teamsters boss Jimmy Hoffa disappeared, never to be seen again. Many theories flourish about what may have happened to him. Is there a famous criminal case that has a hold on your attention?
I've been addicted to Jack the Ripper since sophomore/junior year of high school. I've done two term papers on him and that era/place in history.
7) Jaws was the most popular movie of 1975. Are you afraid of sharks?
Not particularly. I can't swim, so....
8) Actress Angelina Jolie was born in 1975. People magazine once named her "most beautiful." Who is the most beautiful woman you can think of?
That I know personally? I work with a couple of striking women. I can't think of anyone I think who stops traffic or anything...
9) Random question: A wizard offers you a choice -- would you like your life to stay as it is right now (in terms of your health, your career, your relationships and your finances) for the next 5 years, or would you like to take a chance that the future will be brighter?
Oh, hell, the future has to be better than the present! Right?
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Son of a Preacher Man (1968)
Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) This song was originally offered to Aretha Franklin, who turned it down. What's the most recent thing that you said "no" to?
Helping Beast in the bathroom this afternoon. This is what the nurses are paid for. Most of the rest of the stuff that goes on there, I'm willing to help with. Not that, though.
2) Two years later, Aretha recorded "Son of a Preacher Man." What's something you changed your mind about?
I've been doing a lot of back-and-forth about Beast coming home.
3) This song tells the tale of Billy Ray, a young man who could be very persuasive. If we wanted to change your mind about something, would you be more easily swayed by an emotional argument, or with verifiable facts?
I would be unlikely to be swayed by someone trying to change my mind at all. I don't do well with being told what to do.
4) If you ordered a "Son of a Preacher Man" in a bar, you'd get a cocktail made with peppermint schnapps, gin and lemonade. When did you last have lemonade? Was it just lemonade, or was it spiked with alcohol?
Good gawd that sounds AWFUL! I can't even think of a time I've had lemonade in the past 6 months. It's not really my thing, but it would have been just lemonade.
5) Dusty had a thing for maps. She admired them artistically and enjoyed using them to take long car trips. Do you use printed maps? Or do you rely on technology, like GPS or Google Maps?
I almost exclusively use the GPS in my car, and look at Google Maps ahead of time.
6) As a girl, she attended convent school. There, one of the nuns discouraged Dusty from performing, telling her that if she would do better to be a mother or a librarian. When you were growing up, did the adults in your world encourage your dreams?
Nope. Which is ridiculous, actually, considering that I come from a long line of women who worked for pay.
7) That nun inspired Dusty's first major act of rebellion. In an attempt to make herself look less like a future librarian or housewife, she bleached her hair platinum blonde. In school, were you much of a rebel? Or did you conform to the expectations adults had of you?
Oh, I was quiet and relatively well-behaved in school. But remember those striking-looking women? One of them has several tats, wears 6" heels and short skirts, dyes her hair in random colorful streaks....and is a librarian. So, hey nun, fuck right off.
8) Early in her career, Dusty provided the entertainment at a family summer camp. She appeared on the bill with a clown, a fire-eater and a hypnotist. Have you ever been hypnotized?
Nope. Hell to the no, not in public for sure!!
9) Random question: Have you ever played matchmaker to your friends? If yes, did your efforts lead to romance?
I have, to spectacularly zero effect. Setting up two non-communicative people is just stupid.

Saturday, September 30, 2017

Is that even a word??

You Are a Satisficer
You aren't the type of person who settles for something you don't like. You think that second best (or even third best) is often good enough.
You don't like to waste time when making a decision. Once you find an answer that works for you, you go for it.


You aren't one to look back in life. You don't let yourself have regrets or fear of missing out.
You don't worry about the best things in life, because you know the best is constantly evolving.
All you need to know is that you're happy.
I don't really understand this quiz, or the answer, but I'm ok with the result/description, I guess.

Sunday, August 27, 2017

Sunday Stealing

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Art History

1. Do you look forward to the spring?
I live in the upper Midwest; the promise of spring is what keeps us all alive from Christmas Day on every winter. "Oh, I saw a bird today!" "Hey, we got two days of sun in a row!" "Are those tree limbs faintly green?"
2. Which area of the sciences do you enjoy the most?
I love physiology. Not so much biology, but the function of systems together. How things are built to work as a unit.
3. If you could own a classical statue in the form of any figure from myth, religion, or even modern fiction, who would you choose?
Athena. I would love to have a copy of the Athena that stood in the Acropolis when it was in its heyday. Of course, we don't know for sure what that statue looked like--I'd want a miniature of it, not full-size, for the record--despite the fake in Nashville. Why Athena? The goddess of wisdom and war.
4. Do you have a good relationship with your mother?
Probably the best I've ever had with her. I mean, we never argue anymore ... (sad face) ... she died 8 years ago.
5. What is your favorite mythological story?
Hmmm. Trying to do this without looking at anything to prompt me. I kind of love the story of Apollo driving the sun across the sky every day. And the story of Prometheus bringing fire to humans, and the punishment he suffered for it. Pretty brutal.
6. If you put on a big feast, what would you serve?
Chicken, burgers, brats, lots of salads, cake, pie. Basically summer cookout fare. However, my usual feast "style" is Thanksgiving-based, so turkey, potatoes, stuffing, veggies, bread, pie pie pie.
7. How do you have fun? (What is your favorite 'Earthly Delight'?)
Reading? Traveling for sure. Laughing for sure.
8. Do you often look for hidden messages and meanings?
Most of the time. Usually not in the moment, but later. However, I'm also very prone to reminding myself that sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.
9. Have you ever received an award or special position?
Yup.
10. If a revolution was about to happen in your country, would you be part of it?
Oh, this is the part that's timely! hee Well, let's put it this way: I visited the Soviet Union at the end of its life as a country. When the U.S. starts to feel like that, I'll be fighting. My dad fought in WW2, I have read extensively about the Holocaust, and when I see that happening here I'll be fighting. I'll let you decide if either of those (or both) scenarios have any application today.
11. Have you ever planned an act of revenge?
Oh, I've done a LOT of planning!! The question is whether I've ever carried any plans out, though, isn't it?
A former boss told me once that the best way to get through a fraught situation is to quietly plan the demise of the person causing trouble. This has stood me in good stead through many meetings since.
12. What is the most dramatic thing you have ever done?
I don't generally DO dramatic. Maybe throwing the bag of trash back at the people who flung it one night decades ago at the lakefront on July 4. All the boys in our group were like, "Sit DOWN, what are you DOING!?!" I've done some really shocking, scary things over the years, but I wouldn't call them dramatic per se.
13. Do you care about your weight?
I care, but it's clear that I don't care enough to deal with it responsibly.
14. Is your life moving too slowly or too fast?
It's really moving at a pretty reasonable speed right now. Parts could go faster. Parts could slow down some.
15. Do you prefer to stay in the shade?
Yes. I'm a pale-skinned, easily-burned person. And, metaphorically, yes.
16. If you could have any mural on your ceiling, what would it look like?
I wouldn't. These have always made me wonder about the people living in the house. Do you WANT people to be staring up while you're talking to them? Or do you expect people to be so bored that they need something to look at while they're visiting?
17. Do you enjoy the countryside?
heh ... Yeah, I do.
18. Are you a romantic?
Nope.
19. What is your favorite historic subject?
Early Church history, c. A.D. 30 to 200. I also like WW2 stuff, as mentioned above. And the Middle Ages. I just like history, can you tell?
20. Do you prefer landscape paintings?
Nope. I've always needed to have some people in the frame to interest me. I have memories of ENDLESS slide shows of landscapes/scenery as a child. "Didn't you take any pictures of PEOPLE, Dad???"
21. Are you interested in social issues?
Uh, yeah. You could probably say that. Those (few) of you on my Facebook feed are probably rolling your eyes and going, "Nonstop, man, nonstop."

Saturday, August 26, 2017

Friday 5

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Five of Whatever
  1. How tidy are your kitchen cabinets?
    The insides are pretty tidy. We don't tend to throw stuff in them willy-nilly. Everything has it's approved place and things tend to stay put. My spices are alphabetized if that gives you any ideas...
  2. What’s an art project you did in school that you remember fondly?
    We did wood-burning one year, burning designs into wood with a hot iron.
    We were, like 8 or 9. No eye or hand protection. I don't even remember anyone having issues with either the plan or the tools. It would never happen today.
  3. What’s the best thing you ate on your most recent trip?
    My most recent trip was a weekend getaway about 60 miles from here, alone. I don't remember any fabulous food. I mostly slept and read and did puzzles in the hotel room.
  4. What’s the dumbest non-political thing you’ve seen lately?
    I love that you have to make this stipulation! I see stupid, or at least super-strange, stuff pretty much every day at work. I'm trying to think of the latest thing that made me actually take notice....maybe the continued appearance of people checking significant others' phones for reasons to get pissed off. Why do people do this? Why are you looking for anything? I mean, if you already don't trust the girl, why are you still dating? Focus should stay on what YOU are going to do with information you already have.
  5. What’s something in your home that’s lasted longer than you expected?
    I have a table I "appropriated" from the house I stayed in between junior and senior year of college. It's got lovely lines and minimal damage (although the addition of a lower shelf kind of throws things off). It's been refinished but otherwise continues to be a nice piece in our upstairs hallway holding a lamp and a phone.

Friday, August 4, 2017

Leader-ing

You Are a Leader
You are a natural mediator and empath. You know how to get a group to work together, even if it means you are less productive yourself.
You love to cheer people on and help them succeed. You advocate for everyone, and make sure that each person has a voice.

You are a good communicator and problem solver. You know how to work on team building so that everyone feels important.
You are a very empowered person, but you are not selfish with your strengths. You do your best to empower others as well.
I definitely don't think of myself as a leader...!

Friday 5

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In Your Head! In Your Head!
  1. Which mythical monster would you most enjoy discovering (first- or second-hand) is real?
    I'd like to know there are Thestrals.
  2. When did you last exhibit monstrous behavior?
    I've been remarkably good lately. Really, it's been a startlingly good week in terms of my behavior.
  3. What do you think of monster trucks?
    I think they are ridiculous and a sign of feelings of inadequacy in the owner.
  4. If you like monster movies, what’s a monster movie you dislike? And if you dislike them, what’s a monster movie you like?
    Oh, well, I guess I'll go back to a similar well and say Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them.
  5. What song about a monster (or with the word monster in the title) do you really like?
    "Really like" is probably overstating it, but Skillet's "Monster" is pretty good.

Saturday, February 4, 2017

Friday 5

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Grade Check
  1. What grade do you give yourself this week for comportment?
    My usual C+. Everything was handled, but not gracefully most of the time.
  2. What grade do you give yourself this week for cooperation?
    A. I'm big in cooperation!
  3. What grade do you give yourself this week for self-control?
    I'm flunking that when it comes to food. Otherwise, B= and moving up slowly.
  4. What grade do you give yourself this week for punctuality?
    B+. Better than my usual B.
  5. What grade do you give yourself this week for congeniality?
    A-. "It's showtime" is my mantra whenever I'm around people.

Saturday, December 24, 2016

Saturday 9

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Happy Holidays! (from the archives)

1. ...Sam loved giving her annual wish list to Santa. Yet some children are reluctant to climb into Jolly Old St. Nick's lap. Did you enjoy the tradition or were you shy? Or did you by pass it altogether -- either because you wrote him a letter or because your family didn't celebrate Christmas?
I probably was really scared. I only remember standing in line one time for Santa, and I probably wigged out, but I do remember sitting on his lap for about 3 seconds and getting a candy cane at the end of the ordeal. I was probably 6 or 7 at most when that happened.
2. Are you currently on the Naughty or Nice list? How did you get there?
I suppose I'm on the Nice list. I usually am, though I've had my years of edging towards Naughty. I'm never very bad though. Even when I was hardest on myself, I wasn't that bad.
3. Did you ship any gifts to friends and family this year? If so, which one traveled the farthest?
I shipped three packages on Monday. I suck. The overseas one may not make it, but they aren't getting together as a family till next week anyway.
4. Did you buy yourself a gift this year?
Not ... exactly ...? Kinda? I mean, I bought (too many) Hallmark Trek ornaments in ?June? when they hit the market this year. I missed the later additions though, since their release hit at the same time the money dried up. That's probably about all Beast and I are "getting" this year. Since last year's haven't even been unboxed downstairs, though, it's almost like we have two years to look at if we get around to putting them out/up next week.
5. What's your favorite holiday-themed movie?
I don't like movies because of their holiday associations per se. We went and saw Collateral Beauty this week which has lots of Christmas setting-stuff, but it wasn't "about" Christmas. Good movie though. Bring Kleenex.
6. Thinking of movies, Christmas is lucrative for Hollywood. Have you ever gone to a movie theater on Christmas Day?
Yes I have. And I think we're doing it again tomorrow. We saw Little Women back in '94 on Christmas, probably at least a couple since then, and tomorrow is Star Wars Rogue One day for us. It's our reward for behaving at my niece's house tomorrow afternoon.
7. Have you ever suffered an embarrassing moment at the company Christmas party?
Nope. I save my embarrassing moments for family get-togethers.
8. What's your favorite beverage in cold weather?
Same as in warm weather: diet Dr. Pepper. I do like eggnog, but really, I can't drink very much: it's too rich.
9. Share a memory from last Christmas.
Beast had surgery a year ago and came home on Christmas Eve. It was a very low-key holiday, but definitely a good one.
HAPPY HANUKKAH! MERRY CHRISTMAS! AWESOME KWANZAA! Have a great holiday, whatever you're celebrating this weekend.
Belated God Jule and Mawlid an-Nabī as well!

Friday, September 23, 2016

Friday 5 x 3

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Pees
  1. What’s something that recently required perseverance?
  2. Walking through airports. I swear, we are nearly always at the farthest-away-from-anything-else gates!
  3. What’s something that’s been unpleasantly persistent?
  4. My insistence on jumping in and "saving" things...often things that don't necessarily need my interference in the first place.
  5. When has practice not proven to make perfect?
  6. There is no hope in hell of me every becoming a quiet, lady-like woman.
  7. Where were you last required to exercise patience?
  8. Tonight waiting for Beast to pick me up, waiting for a ride to pick Beast up--plans do change radically sometimes--driving to pick him up, driving him home...getting him to bed. And in not asking about the obviously FUBAR garage door when we pulled into the driveway.
  9. How do you feel about peas?
  10. I like fresh peas. Always have. Not canned ones--they are evil and should be banned.
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That’s My Fund-Day
  1. What’s the last thing you didn’t want but purchased anyway because someone’s kid was raising funds for something?
  2. I, fortunately, haven't been asked recently. Having said that 36 kids will show up on my doorstep this weekend.....
  3. What’s something you’re always happy to buy when kids sell it as a fundraiser?
  4. Chocolate!
  5. What was the last fundraiser you participated in?
  6. My nephew and his new bride sort of fundraised for their honeymoon trip rather than getting gifts or registering somewhere. They are not the registry sort, for one thing, and for another, many of the guests were all coming from (FAR) out of town, so they used Honeyfund and let us pick what we wanted to "buy" them.
  7. What are your feelings about the endless cycle of fundraising?
  8. I hate it. I hated having to sell Girl Scout cookies when I was a GS, so the growth in the industry doesn't please me.
  9. What’s something people don’t sell as a fundraiser but really should?
  10. Chores: weeding, cleaning, mowing, grocery shopping. I'd totally pay a kid to do this!
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All Over
  1. What would you like right now to be coated with?
  2. This sounds positively repellent! I want to be covered in a sheet and blanket for a year-long nap. That's all.
  3. What’s something you recently slathered on something else?
  4. I made a peanut butter sandwich the other day with way more peanut butter than I really ought to have used.
  5. What’s something you purchased recently whose purpose is to cover something?
  6. I purchased quite a few clothing souvenirs for myself and assorted others. I guess that counts, right?
  7. What do your current bed linens look like?
  8. Messy. They are sateen-striped sheets, pale blue with two dark tan pillowcases along with the usual matching two. And a blue bedspread with shells and so forth embroidered (embossed?) on it.
  9. Under what circumstances did you last wear some kind of gloves?
  10. I haven't worn gloves in 4-5 months and have no clear memory of precisely when the last time I wore them was. That time is coming around again. Guess I should hit the store and stock up--at my age you would think I could hang onto a pair of gloves for more than one season, wouldn't you?

Saturday, June 18, 2016

Saturday 9

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Papa, Don't Preach (1986)
If you're not familiar with today's song, you can hear it here.

1) Madonna has sold more than 200 million records worldwide. Do you have any of her songs on your iPod/mp3 player/phone?
Nope.
Then again, I don't have an iPod either. I use Spotify and Sirius XM for music (and occasionally Pandora) and I surely have Madonna songs saved on Spotify. ...actually I just chceked--I do NOT have any Madonna! I'm a bit surprised. I do like some of her stuff. Not this week's song, particularly, but others.
2) When she first arrived in New York in search of fame and fortune, Madonna supported herself by working at Dunkin' Donuts. What did you order last time you were at Dunkin' Donuts?
I haven't been for a couple of weeks, but someone brought donuts from there to work on Thursday, so I had one. ...
OK, two!
3) Madonna and her first husband, Sean Penn, ended their marriage on New Year's Eve, 1988. Sam's New Year's Eves are never that dramatic. What about you? Do you have any vivid New Year's Eve memories you'd like to share?
Only a couple. One I was thinking about the other day: Sparky was determined to stay awake to welcome the new millennium. He was 7 (nearly 8) and he lasted till about 10 when he zonked out in the papa-san chair. I have a photo of him in his jammies that is adorable. (too lazy to go find and scan it in here tho)
The other memory I have is watching the countdown show on the Big City broadcast several years ago and realizing that both news anchors hosting it were WAY drunk and actually in danger of hooking up on the air. And these were not youthful people! It was funny, and horrible, and embarrassing.
4) Madonna admits she suffers from brontophobia, aka the fear of storms. Are you scared of thunder and lightning?
I've a healthy respect for lightning, but I don't fear it; I just take precautions. What I am afraid of is wind and "funny-colored" skies. That's tornado-brewing weather and I don't mess around with that at all!
5) Onstage during the 2015 Coachella fest, Madonna shocked the audience by planting a kiss square on the lips of much-younger rapper Drake. What's something that surprised you recently?
That was a very disturbing video to watch, by the way. {{shudder}} My Crazy Cat Lady coworker called in sick EVERY SINGLE DAY THIS WEEK, and didn't even have to provide a doctor's note yesterday (day 4). That's HR's rule, and it's in place at work because of her so we're all a little pissed-off that she doesn't have to follow the rules. And she's already taking vacation next week. So. Yeah. Meanwhile, other people were at work every single day even though they were not well; they at least showed up before we shooed (some of) them home. I've been dealing with this behavior from her for 20+ years. It never stops being annoying though for the most part, I've given up. Whining about it doesn't change it any more than whining about a cat not being a dog changes that situation.
On a happier note, I was pleasantly surprised yesterday when Beast told me he was getting up at 6:15 to go to Men's Bible Study this morning.
6) More recently, Madonna was at the center of a controversy because Prince fans didn't like her tribute at the Billboard Music Awards. They made themselves heard on social media. Was your last Facebook post or Tweet positive or negative?
Whatever. I didn't see her tribute, but people need to calm the fuck down about stuff like this. My last Fbook post is technically from GoodReads: a positive review of a book I just finished. And the one just before that is a funny medieval "interpretation" of a scene from Star Wars.
7) One of the things Sam's papa preaches about is car maintenance. He reminds her to check her car's air filter regularly, because a dirty filter can reduce mileage. Share your own car maintenance tip with us.
Uhm. I'm hyper-aware of running out of windshield-washer fluid. Otherwise, Beast takes good care of the cars. I need to get the oil changed--I've a light going on every time I start the car--but that's getting taken care of shortly as well. I don't really "do" car stuff, because I'm fortunate enough not to have to worry about it.
8) When she was growing up, Sam's father was often away on business. He always remembered to bring back the complimentary shampoos, conditioners and lotions from the hotels where he stayed. When will you next stay in a hotel (or motel, bed-and-breakfast or Airbnb room)?
We might spend a night next weekend in the city where Sparky's living, and where he (and we) went to college. He's moving apartments and the schedule is a little fubar so it might mean a night with the Holiday Inn peeps. After that, I'm not sure. Maybe nothing till September when we go to my nephew Jesse's wedding. Beast is traveling to his company's HQ this week, though, so he'll be hotelling it for 4 nights.
9) To celebrate Father's Day, Sam is giving away her father's favorite candy: LifeSavers. Would you prefer a roll of Wild Cherry, Butter Rum, Winter Green or Peppermint?
I'm tempted to say Wint-o-Green for the sparking, but I haven't had Butter Rum in absolute EONS! It sounds good this morning.

Friday 5

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A Week of Good Behavior

  1. What’s the dumbest thing you did this week?
    Allowing myself to get drawn into the Friday Bitch-fest at work yesterday. Everyone's crabby, one person was a complete jerk all week, and it's frantically busy right now with programming. I need to go back to "stay the hell out of the emotional quagmire" mode I've been in fairly successfully all winter.
  2. In what way did you save yourself time or energy this week?
    I didn't park at the hospital for two days waiting on Beast. Actually, despite my answer to #1, I think this week I handled myself very well. For the first time in awhile, I feel pretty good about things.
  3. How were you wasteful of personal and natural resources this week?
    The emotional-eating monster reared up, but in clearly identifiable mode. I went through an awful lot of gas driving hither and yon. I'm sure there are other things but they're less concrete.
  4. When this week did you take advantage of the opportunity to keep your mouth shut?
    Yesterday: not nearly enough! Monday and Tuesday, pretty much every minute of both days!! "Does it need to be said?" Does it need to be said by me? Can I say it kindly?" And, of course, walking away from horrible behavior online after the shooting; I refused to get involved in evil comment-strings.
  5. In what way this week were you blessed or fortunate?
    Right now, it seems that Beast has made some positive, long-term healthy decisions. I (re)discovered how many wonderful friends I have who back me (us) up. Work was mostly interesting and I didn't get overly wrapped up in the drama--till yesterday, and even then not like I used to. The weather has been OUTSTANDING!! I'm really more blessed than I have a right to be.

Sunday, June 5, 2016

Sunday Stealing

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Meal Skipper Meme

1. Do you skip meals sometimes?
Probably not nearly as often as I ought to. I find myself eating because it's "lunchtime" or whatever and realizing that I'm not even actually hungry.
2. Last time you overate?
At least a week. There hasn't been a lot of time for big meals this week.
3. Do you like Mexican food?
I love it!
4. Do you like Chinese food?
Yes, some.
5. Do you like Italian food?
OMG, YES!
6. Do you like American food?
Uh, yeah.
7. Have you ever been on a diet?
Too many times.
8. Do you like vegetables?
Yes.
9. On a scale from 1 to 5 how much do you eat a day (1= not eating, 5= eating 3 meals)?
5. Actually more like 5+.
b>10. Do you think you eat healthily?
Not as well as I could, certainly.
11. Do you think you are ugly?
Well, I don't scare children or animals....
12. Do you like your hair?
I have good hair.
13. Do you like the way you look?
I'd like to be approx 20 again and a little more clued in to what works for me in terms of clothes and hair.
14. Would you want to change anything?
Now? Yes. Will I? I can certainly try harder.
15. Do you ever wear a lucky color?
I don't really have a lucky color. I have some "magical" clothing though, for instance my Reggie White Packers jersey.
16. Do you care how other people see you?
Well, again, I don't really want to scare anyone, but in the main I'm invisible to the majority of people these days and that's fine.
17. Do you or have you ever worn braces?
Yup. Two years of hell in junior high.
18. Do you wear glasses and/or contacts?
I'm effectively blind without my glasses. Tried contacts in college--and that led to me developing a giant panoply of heath issues. Plus, they were fussy and mostly annoying.
19. Do you want to gain weight, lose weight, or stay about the same?
I need to lose weight. Actually, what I need to do is cut back on sugar; if I did that, I'd lose weight too.
20. What do you do if you have the flu?
Drink water, sleep as much as I can, and probably mope around the house feeling lousy.
21. How many tries to get your driver's license?
Got it on the first try.
22. Are you saving up for anything in the future?
Does retirement count?
23. Do you have a lot of spare time?
More than I've earned for sure.
24. Do you consider yourself a responsible person?
Yes. Except when I'm really notat all, which is rare. It's like a little seizure when I act irresponsibly: out of control and (fortunately) pretty rare.
25. Do you consider yourself a lazy person?
HELL yess!!

Saturday, May 21, 2016

Friday 5

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Coverage
  1. What do your bed linens look like, right now?
    I believe they're in the washing machine, although I've decided it's time to move to the summer set so they are sitting on the bed waiting to be put together.
  2. What’s the most you’ve spent on something you use as protection for something expensive?
    We spend a decent amount on (car, auto, health, life) insurance. Not a crazy amount, but plenty.
  3. What does your nicest coat look like?
    I hate my winter coat. It's warm but fugly. It got its summer bath last weekend so its gone till October-ish. And I don't have a 'nice' coat.
  4. What was the most recent cheese-covered (or chocolate-covered, if you prefer) dish you enjoyed?
    I had salmon last night with a cheesy béchamel sauce for dinner. No chocolate in awhile.
  5. What’s something for which you often forget (or choose not) to replace the cover?
    I...think I'm a little OCD about putting the lid back on things. I honestly can't come up with anything.

Friday, May 13, 2016

Friday 5

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How Did You Learn That?
  1. How did you learn to throw a ball?
    There are those who would argue I still haven't ... lol What teaching I got was a combination of my brother, watching others, gym class, and practicing.
  2. How did you learn to drive?
    I took driver's ed at school, but really my dad taught me.
  3. How did you learn to swim?
    I haven't.
  4. What is the most recent thing you learned how to do from an online tutorial?
    I think it probably has something to do with work. MARC Edit, or RDA or something.
  5. How did you learn most of your social etiquette?
    Truthfully? By breaking social rules and being yelled at, and then deciding if I care about that social rule.
 
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