Mindlessness during MNF

from Kistha

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing?
Married, so I guess that would be 'taken.'

2) Are you happy with where you are?
In a metaphysical sense, yes. In a physical location, I'm comfortable. I'd rather live somewhere else, but now is not forever. Thank God.

3) When you meet the right person, would you fall fast?
No. I'm not a fast-faller. I'm deeply compulsive, but I always keep a reserve.

4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
I have a kid. He has been the cause of many heartaches. If we widen it out to the rest of the world...shit, it's no wonder my body hurts some days!

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is okay?
Cheating implies rule-breaking. If the rules are clearly renegotiated, then it's not cheating. There are circumstances, I think, when renegotiation has to be assumed.

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
It would be a steep hill to climb. I doubt I could do it, not at this point in my life.

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
This question makes me laugh. I'm married, so yeah. I've also takend "about marriage" with lots of other people: whether they should get married/divorced, what marriage is all about, etc.

8) Do you want children?
Not more than the one I have! It's simply not possible for me to have more.

9) How many?
One is good.

10) Would you consider adoption?
Not at this point. I did for most of my 20s and into my 30s, but I can't see starting again. We have lots of friends who have adopted. It's fascinating to watch the process and I'm glad I haven't ever had to endure it.

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
They need to get over it. Find someone suitable.

12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
I don't play. Not this way.

13) Do you want someone you can't have?
Not really.

14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
Yes.

15) Do you believe in celebrating anniversaries?
Of course. I remember oddball anniversaries. For instance, this year is the 2nd time that the days of the week have lined up the same way they did the year my dad died. Last Saturday was the twelfth anniversairy of his funeral.

16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
FuckNO! I can't even handle changing myself!

17) If you could get married anywhere, money's not an object?
I'd've done my wedding at the courthouse and had a honeymoon to die for instead of the big, stupid wedding show.

18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
Yes.

19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
Of course. Still happens once in awhile, too.

20) Have you ever broken a heart?
I don't know about broken, but I know I damaged one person's.

21) Would you ever fight someone over your significant other?
No. See #12. I wouldn't respect the person over whom we'd be fighting if he allowed it, either.